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There was a time when ‘all-you-can-eat’ wasn’t a dare.   It was a courtesy.   A freedom paired with a personal responsibility.   And maybe most importantly, a quiet reminder that:     Just because you can… doesn’t mean you should.     That idea sat front and center at the iconic Grey’s Cafeteria in Mooresville, Indiana; my family’s ‘go-to’ as a kid growing up in the heart of the Midwest. Their motto, posted in bold letters near the end of the line, said it all:   “Take all you want, but eat all you take.”   Simple. Sensible. And sorely missing in today’s super-sized world.     🥘 Grey’s Was More Than Just a Cafeteria   It was a community staple.   A smorgasbord of roast beef, mashed potatoes, green beans, and pies that made grown men weep (or nap). But there was nothing “gluttonous” about it. It was abundance with boundaries.   Which is why it felt personal when Grey’s closed its doors in February 2025 after 80 years, citing a potential rebrand or relocation. Will they reopen? Maybe. But something tells me… it won’t be quite the same.   A Visual Test: What Are Your Eyes Telling You?   Here’s a challenge. Grab a photo album from the 1940s, 50s, or 60s – maybe your parents or grandparents.   Look at the people. Church gatherings. Baseball games. Family reunions. School photos.   What do you notice?   There’s something visibly different…Leaner faces. Smaller waistlines. Different postures. Less bloat, less burden.   We can argue all day about willpower, motivation, and exercise routines. But ask yourself honestly:   🍔 From Real Meals to Food-Like Substances   That’s where Dr. Jason Fung’s book, The Obesity Code, comes in.   He argues that obesity isn’t just a calories-in, calories-out issue – it’s hormonal. Specifically tied to insulin resistance, refined carbs, and how often we eat.   Most of us are swimming in food options 24/7. But what we’re choosing – ultra-processed, hyper-palatable, insulin-spiking “products” – isn’t really food. It’s entertainment. It’s addictive. It’s profitable.   And it’s breaking our health, one bite at a time.     🛠️ Minimalism Isn’t Deprivation – It’s Discernment   I’m not anti-food. I love to eat. I love to grill. I’ve even built a brand around it.   But I’m a big believer that utility trumps excess, and that applies to food, time, possessions, and energy.   You don’t need 12 items on your plate. You need the right 3 – real food, cooked well, enjoyed in peace.   Same goes for your schedule. Your Amazon cart. Your supplement stack. If it’s not helping you live better… why’s it on your tray or in your ‘shopping cart’?     🧠 The Stoics Understood This Long Before We Had Processed Cheese   “It is not the man who has too little, but the man who craves more, that is poor.”– Seneca   The Stoics weren’t against pleasure. They were against waste. Waste of time. Waste of virtue. Waste of health. And they knew that discipline isn’t punishment – it’s protection.   Those cafeteria signs – “Take all you want, but eat all you take” – were mini moral compasses.   They taught us to think before piling on. To choose wisely. To respect what we were given.   That’s Stoicism. That’s minimalism. That’s stewardship.     🌎 Modern Stewardship: A Bigger Picture   When we talk about stewardship today, let’s broaden the definition:   🏁 Final Thoughts From the ‘Buffet Line of Life’   We’re not just dealing with a health crisis – we’re facing a clarity crisis. We’ve forgotten how to separate what we can do from what we should do.   Grey’s Cafeteria may have closed, but the lesson still holds:   You don’t have to load up your plate – just fill it with what truly serves you.   So – whether you’re dining, shopping, planning your day, or pursuing your passions…   Remember: Take all you want, but eat all you take.Just because you can, doesn’t mean you should.   Let’s choose with purpose. Let’s live with rhythm. And let’s never forget the wisdom of a cafeteria tray and a Stoic heart. — – BrianHealth Hacker. Minimalist Meatloaf Philosopher. Still cleaning my plate at LivinBestLife.com.